God designed a woman to attract a man. Her beauty guarantees that she
is noticed, wanted & valued by the man. A man is first attracted by
a woman's beauty & body; this is a natural reaction to which we men
can do nothing about. This is not to mean that men are promiscuous, NO.
It is a man who approaches a woman and being attracted to a her
enhances the act of man & woman being joint as one. There's nothing
immoral in being attracted to a woman as a man. From the beautiful hairs
of her head to the tender soles of her feet, a woman is adorable and
that's why our great grandman, Adam, beheld the beauty of the woman and
said it was bone of bone & flesh of flesh. Now, it is saddening that
we men have come to judge every woman by her outward looks. Yes, I know
you have many views here but for now, you can keep them to yourself.
From reality, we men leap into the perfect world of fantasy and hope to
retrieve an ideal woman. More often than not, we come out from the adult
"Disney" land when it's too late, with a beauty we longer call so, a
decay in the bones as the Bible puts it by our side. It's from this
effect that some women not confident enough in themselves (for whatever
reason) tend to artificialise their beauty. Don't get me wrong, we
appreciate and recognise efforts in a woman to make oneself presentable
but we still believe it goes hand in hand with modesty. Some extreme
extents reached by some women to beautify themselves rather portray
desperation, immaturity and ignorance above all. This extreme measure, a
noble woman will not take. This now even brings us to what a noble
woman is!
There's nowhere to get the best description of a noble
woman than Proverbs 31. The scriptures therein speak not of any beauty
but it's evident that the inward beauty possessed by this virtuous woman
is reflected outwards. The character of this woman is stunning and is
what stands of her when her outward beauty has faded, when make-up can
no longer make any difference. Now, this is a woman whose outer beauty
will last to her man. It's the virtues possessed by the woman that will
determine whether she will stand the ultimate litmus test of time
regardless of how attractive, sexy or beautiful she might be
considered. Again, a woman's outer beauty will ALWAYS fade with time...
coz the Bible says beauty is vanity; it won't last, but character will
outlive it. Yes, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. But then, in
what context? ...then if love were blind, then marriage would be an
eye-opener.
So, much as we are naturally attracted to a woman's
outer beauty as men, we ought to go beyond that outward appearance of a
woman if we want to consider her more than just a mere woman. This is a
natural challenge which every man that wishes to join union with a woman
ought to face. It is every man's own battle, whether taken serious or
otherwise.
When it's all been said and done, the outward beauty then will
mean nothing but the character in this your woman will matter, to
determine the type of life you will live to the end of your days.

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